Family, Friends & Partners

these 3 words sound soo nice.. but when people look into it.. there are CONFLICT, MISTRUST, MISUNDERSTANDING, SELFISHNESS and POSSESSIVENESS. heard some family problems from friends, relatives and from lots of ppl.. i too have exp some family prob.. but why do this exist?? is it because of a word call CARE?? hmm.. i dun know.. some parents seems to care too much for their child and became possessive, a child care soo much abt freedom and became selfish.. then resulted in conflict, mistrust and lots of prob.. why cant ppl jus sit down and tok abt things clamly.. hmm.. was in the lrt station jus now.. and saw some ugly acts of human... some they dun give up their sits, some does not care abt others and lean on the pole that ppl need to hold.. a guy dig his nose in the public, parents scold children loudly, the kids run around every where and any where.. hmm.. then suddenly i have a thot in my mind.. if one day i can create human, i will create them with equal no. of males and females, making the world complete, everyone will be paired up with their partners before they are born and will be together no matter how tough things are.. there will then be no third party and family confilcts due to mistrust.. the whole world will at least have some peace..